Just a few things:
I was told recently by someone whom I met through MyLuc that she no longer wants to hang with us because we fight too much and it makes her uncomfortable. She thinks we fight dirty and intentionally hurt each others feelings. I talked with MyLuc about this and we were confused...we fight all the time, we pick at each other, we know each others buttons, but we don't intentionally set out to hurt each others feelings. If either of us have gone to far we know it. We do fight when we have Company but it isn't hurtful..or so I thought. I have spoken with a few other people and couples that we hang out with. They said "yep, you too fight like you're already married". I tried to think back to the conversations we had the night we had this person over and all I can't recall exactly where it went wrong. This person thinks MyLuc mentally abuses me and that she really doesn't understand why we're together. This totaly confused me.
MyLuc and I just celebrated three years. Three years of living together, eating together, sleeping together and being in each others space when we're not at our jobs. We have plans. We've cancelled plans. We're engaged and gonna be for a very long time...but that's another story. I love him and he loves me. It's one of our favourite stories because he pursued me and I basically told him to go away. I moved somewhere new all by myself and called him up....he said I love you first, my thought was cake. We're not perfect, few couples are.
I told this person how sorry I was that we made her uncomfortable and that we'd try to behave. I haven't heard from her since. I'd like to think MyLuc and I are a couple who others can come hang with, eat dinner with, do stuff with...I just don't know.
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I know my math is bad, it isn't intentional...or is it. Sometimes I make stupid mistakes. I woke up Saturday morning and wanted to do laundry. I do what I do every laundry day and make piles of a loonie and three quarters. I freaked out and called MyLuc to see if he had any loonies because I had run out. He came into the kitchen and started to laugh. It turns out I had made piles of three loonies and three quarters. I had more than enough. *blush* Yep, I need to wake up, have some coffee, do some morning stuff and then ... perhaps...do something that requires brain power.
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I've emailed and commented over at "Ma" from BananaRants blog and she's been awesome enought to send me a recipe for Spanakopita Casserole. I can't wait to try it out. Spanakapita is one of MyLuc's favourite Greek eatings...next to lamb o'course.
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*HUGE HUGS* Have a great long weekend!
*HUGE HUGS*
2 comments:
I'm sorry.. What's a loonie? ;)
*grin* A Canadian...errr...one dollar coin...tho' Canadian works too.
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